The Abstract Painting of Communicating Vision
- Marly Grahm

- Jul 1
- 4 min read
Updated: Aug 8
“The single biggest problem in communication is the illusion that it has taken place.” — George Bernard Shaw
A strange thing happens as you get better at what you do. Your messaging gets worse.
As you gain new skills, solve more problems, and add more services, you become so capable that people can’t figure out what you’re actually known for. You get so involved in the logistics that communicating to the audience and staff who haven’t been as immersed as you becomes difficult.
Your vision grows alongside you and becomes more difficult to communicate. You understand all of the nuances, and, because of that, you try to communicate everything.
Whether you are leading a team or growing a business, this challenge is often the same. People don’t remember everything, they remember what is clear.
So, what solutions do you have to clear up your communication? Continue reading to learn about specific tools you can implement today in your own workplace and life.
The Five W’s (and extra H)
Communication, often, feels like an abstract concept that is hard to pin down. It is like that abstract painting in the corner that has a thousand different interpretations. While art thrives on ambiguity, functional communication dies without clarity. To move from abstract confusion to actionable understanding, we must ground our messages in the Five W’s:
Who needs to hear it?
What do they need to know?
Why does it matter?
When should they hear it?
How should it be communicated?
What action should follow?
By anchoring your words to these five pillars, we transform a blurry canvas into a clear, unmistakable map.
Active Listening
We all know what listening is, or at least, we think we do. For most of us, “normal” listening is just a passive, automatic waiting room where we nod politely while our brains furiously rehearse our next brilliant comeback.
Active listening, on the other hand, is like flipping a switch from autopilot to detective mode. It forces you to shut up, drop the internal monologue, and actually tune into the speaker’s frequency instead of just waiting for your turn at the microphone.
In leadership (and beyond), active listening is the practice of being fully present, absorbing the context, and interpreting meaning without immediate judgement. Active listeners ask clarifying questions throughout conversations and confirm their understanding along the way.
Integrating this into your daily routine does not require a complex strategy; it just takes a few deliberate habits. Start by removing obvious distractions, like turning your phone face down, and resisting the urge to jump straight into “problem-solving” mode. When someone finishes speaking, pause for a beat before you reply, and try reflecting their thoughts back to them.
Making this shift takes conscious effort, but it smoothly transitions your conversations from routine information exchanges into genuine, collaborative partnerships.
Communication Recaps
Think of meeting summaries, action item recaps, and follow up emails for this solution.
Communication recaps allow leaders to drive accountability, prevent costly misunderstandings, and build trust by establishing a single source of truth.
By putting conversations into a clear record, leaders validate active listening and ensure every team member leaves aligned on goals and next steps. Recaps also establish a disciplined rhythm of preparation and real-time tracking. Before a meeting begins, pre-populate your agenda with a dedicated action-item section and assign a designated note-taker to anchor the process.
During the conversation, share your screen to live-type key decisions, verbally confirm task ownership with team members, and strictly reserve the final five minutes to audit the captured points together.
Immediately after the conversation, distribute the final summary to your team members to lock in accountability and maintain project momentum.
Feedback Loops
In a similar vein, feedback loops include check-ins and feedback discussions, transforming static communication into a continuous engine for performance, trust, and growth. These loops establish how the team is doing and where they need support.
To make these discussions highly effective, leaders should focus on a few key behaviors. Leaders should schedule with consistency, keeping regular check-ins on the calendar. During those meetings, leaders should ask open-ended questions and make it a two-way conversation.
When you give feedback and make it more of an interactive conversation, it activates the brain areas responsible for learning and motivation. Feedback, like constructive feedback, helps employees both recognize areas they can improve on and spark a desire to improve as well.
Integrating this feedback into a routine allows conversations to focus on development and encourage a growth mindset, motivating improvement rather than instigating resistance in your team.
Final Thoughts
Communicating well with your employees and audience is a key point of success. When communication and vision isn’t clear, people can start to disconnect from the company and not feel that same sense of ownership in their role.
Bring back that ownership to your people and ask yourself some questions...
Where do communication misalignments occur most often?
And
What communication skills do you want to improve over the next 90 days?





